IDEAL LIFE sounds relative

"There.. always comes a time, when people sit back and think y their life had been so chaotic.

They sit back, make out a plan which looks more promising in approaching their goals.

And days passes, wen u r happy to see yourself following the plan u drafted..

but life just doesn't give-up with u...

you get caught up with things which you never expected to gain priority..

within few days ur million dollar life plan goes to drain..

One may counter saying ur plans wer just not able to adapt to changes in life..

but no one seems to have an right solution for this.. "



I in fact have an different opinion on this question rather than the solution for it.

The question comes in quite a variant form

"Do u want to live life this way??"

"Has ur life made a significance to others??"

"Are you reaching ur goals??"

"Are you able to control ur mind??"


But i could see where all these questions are leading to..

Though they seems straight forward, they actually relative...

They just compare your life with "THE IDEAL LIFE" variable(in a geek's wrd) .

Unfortunately "THE IDEAL LIFE" is not really a Global constant..

This variable is largely influenced by quite a no. of things around the person who tries to define this.

And I feel the quest to this "THE IDEAL LIFE" is leading to nowhere as one is IDEAL when he compares oneself with himself.

And IDEAL is always thought of as a way to keep you HAPPY all the time

Life is beautiful when you really leave it to be chaotic, face things as it comes, changing goals as u need, so that its you who define what is Happiness.

Again HAPPY is a relative term, its you who decide how much happy you are. If you think reaching cloud 9 is Happiness, you will never enjoy the happiness of reaching everest top.

At the same time, idea of leaving life chaotic doesn’t really mean that you do things always in the last min. They inturn mean that you must rather excel in the way you are able to adapt to the changes that happen in ur life and fix small possible goals , which keeps your enthu high. So that you don’t bring ur complex down when you are not able to reach the limits you wished…

Life is a canvas ... its you who can decide what you would like to draw on it.. If you try to copy other's patterns you will lose your uniqueness.